Totally Random!
Helen Campbell’s Letter

I met Helen Cambell in Toastmasters in the late 1980s. After a visit to our house when Katy was about three, Helen wrote me this letter:
Rick, if you can stand some unasked-for advice about Katy… I sense you feel irritated, and / or embarrassed when you see her socks or toys littering a floor which once was neat and tidy. The day will come when there won’t be any little kids stuff cluttering up your home. She’ll be away at college, dating boys you’ve never even met, or heard of… and you’ll worry that she might take up with some young man who’s not nearly good enough for her.
You will long for the days when she was at home, where you could protect her from the world; And you’ll even long for the sight of a little kid’s socks and toys left around in every room in the house. The clutter of little kids stuff is just part of the package.
Guests who come to your home don’t mind it. It reminds them of the happy days when their own kids were little and safe at home leaving socks in the kitchen and toys in the office.
Love, Helen.
Now that Katy is just weeks away from becoming a mother the letter seems very apropos. I forwarded it to her.
Photo Trick
I see great images out my car windshield. So recently I installed a windshield-mounted iPhone holder.

I used it to get this shot of the Richmond-San Rafael Bridge.

Richmond-San Rafael Bridge
The camera can be clicked with a remote clicker or an Apple headphone jack so you keep both hands on the wheel. Give it a try. Let me know.
Street Photography

Young or Old… I Scream, You Scream… We All Scream for Ice Cream


Song Titles: There Is Gold In the Ordinary
Ain’t That a Shame #1
Fats Domino used to hear the elderly ladies in his New Orleans neighborhood complain to each other: “Ain’t That a Shame #1″
Blue Suede Shoes #2
A young, unknown Carl Perkins was playing a rowdy beer hall. Just below the stage he heard a young dancer yell at his girlfriend, “Don’t You Step on My Blues Suede Shoes.”
Good Vibrations #1
As a boy Brian Wilson was walking with his mother when an angry dog lashed out. He asked his mom why, “Well Brian, dogs can sense things and sometimes they give you anger, but sometimes they give you “Good Vibrations.”
(If you like Good Vibrations, please check out Sally Go Around the Roses and Donovans Colours by VanDyke Parks)
To Know Him is to Love Him #1
Phil Spector found engraved on his fathers’ gravestone: To Know Him Is to Love Him.
Big City #1
Dean Holloway had been Merle Haggard’s driver since his career took off in 1966. They had been friends since grammar school in Bakersfield. After a two-day, hard, hot recording session in LA, Merle went out to the bus to find Dean hot, tired and pissed off. He told Merle, “I hate this place. I’m tired of this dirty old city.”
Songwriter Haggard could hear a potential song in Dean’s frustration. He coaxed a few more words from Dean, like “If it were up to me, I’d be somewhere in the middle of damn Montana.”
Haggard went back into the studio where the band was packing up, and said, “Hold on. We’ve got one more song to record.” An hour later they had a #1 record, Big City. Merle took the tape back out to the bus and played it for Dean, who loved it. Merle said, “Dean, you just wrote a #1 record. I’m going to split the proceeds with you 50/50.”
Just before he retired, Dean told Merle he had made $500,000 on that record. Merle Haggard was not only generous, but also improvisational.
What Can the Democrats Learn from Merle Haggard?
In this story is EXACTLY why the dems lost. They ran an unpopular black female. They rattled on about trans gender bathrooms and the glass ceiling. They called the white working class who supported Trump “deplorables,” and “garbage” (Biden). They used words like “oligarchs,” (WTF -what does that even mean and how to spell it?).
Haggard, on the other hand, celebrated the talent of his bus driver and shared the profits with him. Dems… are you listening? It ain’t about different messaging. Since you are not listening, I’m afraid the only answer to Trump is violence.
Think Kent State X 1,000. Trump must order the National Guard to mow down the old white-haired “cat ladies” with their signs as “domestic terrorists.” At that point he will lose support of the MAGA nutjobs and the Army. Remember, India won its independence when the British soldiers could no longer stomach killing nonviolent protestors in the streets.
Remember, too, how fast support melted away from Joseph McCarthy when we had finally had enough of his nonsense.
Speaking of Gold in the Ordinary
My latest project is made of tools I have duplicates of.
Title: Let’s Build Some Shit

Rick – I like everything you get into – the iPhone suspended on your windshield, what it produced, your spontaneous photography, history lessons on creativity, and random hand tools. I’m rebuilding a favorite old lamp with some aluminum pipe, wood doweling, O-rings, threaded rod with a coupling, having a great time with my tools. Your latest piece just hit the spot.
Your reminiscence about toys scattered all over: *5 year old toes have special sensors in them. Friends put their first few Christmas trees in the playpen after having twins the first go around.
Stunning picture of the bridge.
Such a sweet letter from Helen. — I like what you wrote when circulating the important message: Now I can’t find it, but it was something like, “I want CNN to stop acting like business as usual. they should be screaming, yelling, and throwing chairs!” — That the Dems are just acting like all is normal and asking for $15 when America as we know it is being destroyed in broad daylight and Dems act like there is nothing they can do — THAT is what is driving me to distraction. I have a new name for that country up north (I’m in Mexico, thank god-who-does-not-exist): Russia West. — Oops sorry. Got off the topic. Well this blog was entitled Totally Random. — Love the photos from the car too.
Loved each segment of this post. Cheers.